Most relationships tend to become battlefields for this energy. The children and the parents compete for energy because they fear not having any. No energy means you could die. It is like the survival of the fittest. The children learn their strategy for a limited amount of energy which their parents possess. We then use this strategy to gain attention and therefore energy, without knowing we do, automatically and robotically for the rest of our lives.

If we are lucky we can learn to limit the bad effects of this strategy by seeing how we ourselves fit into the pattern.

Each pattern limits us and prevents our freedom. All the theories of introvert and extrovert; oral, rigid, masochistic, psychopathic, schizoid. The Space Jockeys, the Intellectuals the Pleasers the Blamers. All different types of Tyrants. All the character patterns of the signs of the Zodiac.

Learn how to HEAL all your childish selfish Thoughtforms. Note that all these strategies can be used unselfishly for a good purpose if we wish. However, if we use them selfishly, these Strategies which we All use unconsciously to steal energies from others can lead us into painful situations which can depress us and which can lead to destructive patterns in our lives:-

When we remain quiet then our mothers often ask if there is a problem. The strategy has worked! We have caught the attention, the energy, the love of our mothers. Because of this people remain quiet and show no love at inappropriate times, simply because this strategy worked once.

Further than the aloof strategy the Poor Me gains energy by being sad or sick, sometimes an Alcoholic or a Drug Addict. They are so sad that one feels guilty to be happy in their presence. Needless to say, this childish personality will do anything, hurt or even kill themselves to gain your attention and your Energy!

By asking questions or telling jokes only to gain approval, attention and therefore energy. The Fame Game destroys your fame diminishes. There are many ways to be a star. But ask yourself why they/you are doing it? If all they/you want is attention. If they/you have no selfless inner purpose. Then this is just another selfish strategy to gain your/their attention.

Further, The Star is tremendously competitive. The Star lives by the law of Gengis Khan – "It is not enough that I succeed, all others must fail"

The Star will work actively, competitively and jealously to destroy all other competitors.

Further than the interrogator and the star, this person uses powerful hurtful means to get your energy. Verbal abuse, Physical abuse. Rape.

Everyone will use all of these strategies at some time in their lives. Usually people cycle between them. As one fails they try another, stronger one. And then will be sorry and swear that they will never use them again.

We are all Dependent Vampires, stealers of energy. The only way out is to connect to a higher level of energy which can never fail. To become Independent. Then we can comfortably destroy these negative thoughtforms in our lives. Energy Enhancement Level Two shows the way to do it.

We need to clearly see the action of any of these patterns in our lives. Patterns which are based upon fear. Patterns which are based upon selfishly getting attention. Before we can be free of them. We need to see the action of any of these patterns in our personal history.

The energy which is given through the second chakra is not then available to be transferred through to the Throat chakra. It can prevent personal creativity for a while. It can prevent energy going to the head. It can reduce our Intelligence Quotient for a while. However, people with strong sexual drives are learning how to control them. Their productivity depends on how well they do this.

The Aloof and the Interrogator feed off each other. The Aloof stay quiet and avert their eyes to gain attention and thus more energy. The Interrogator gets irritated at the aloofness and starts to ask questions in order to gain the attention and energy of the Aloof. They can really take their parts seriously and get angry and upset during the playing of these games. Their strategies to gain energy.

The Poor Me and the Intimidator or Violator feed off each other. They are more dangerous but extensions of the other pair. The Poor Me will create something to make you sorry for them and thus get your energy. They will make you feel sorry for being better off than them. The Alcoholic. The ill. The person crippled by previous hurts, emotional or physical can all be examples of this type. They all want your energy. The Intimidator creates the Poor me and one easily slips to the other. They threaten violence to get your attention. They violate and abuse to control, to get your energy.

Moreover, many people use the Star to impress their partners to start with, then in the family they become poor me’s or violators to get their energy.

Some men are always complaining about their wives and the meaninglessness of their lives. Even they do not know that they are using the Poor Me to attract attention.

What I’m trying to get over is that almost everyone is shuttling from one strategy to another without noticing it.

These games are taught in early life. Most people cannot see their own dramas and will carry on doing them without any conscious knowledge of them doing it. In the process they will teach their children the same tricks. Unless we can see our dramas for what they are. Just seeing how we play these games ourselves allows us to just stop them.

Many people are trying to show us our patterns and how we are limited by them. Each family is the training ground for how to get, to steal more energy.

The only release, in the end, is learn how to control our energy.

Energy Enhancement Techniques show how to do this. Then there is no competition only fulfilment.

The effects of these strategies on society is vast. Most people shuttle from Star to attract a partner, to Poor Me, or if that does not work, to Violator to gain the attention (love) of their partners.

Most therapists bring intellectual attention to these strategies that you are using.

Although this can ameliorate their effects, it cannot stop the violator who swears that he will never beat up his wife again. Who says that he did not know what came over him.

And not only these gross effects. A person lost in these second chakra strategies will be totally controlled by them in little ways.

Energy Enhancement Level 2 teaches how to totally drain the negative energy out of these thoughtforms so that they can never bother us again.

Outside the family we learn to use these strategies of control. We create fear to obtain control. When we control a person we gain their energy. We use these strategies to gain power. When we get power over a person we gain their energy. This is the rule in low organisations and low societies. This is the rule, the competition for energy, in any item over which there is a shortage. Because of the fear of lack. Because if we do not have enough we will die. This is the fear. It causes the rich to get richer and the poor to get poorer. The miserly rich, who pile up more than they need, do it out of this childish competition and fear of lack.

Where there is no lack of the essentials for the poor. Where people are not forced into work which is against their essential nature through fear of not having sufficient to live on. There should be a true freedom of choice and not one coerced through fear of not having enough.