When they reach the age of puberty, they soon discover the opposite sex and these second chakra connections soon occur, just through being in the presence of the opposite sex.

A beautiful floating energetic state is reached as the "Love Vibrations" pour out of the second chakra leaving no energy to power the head. However, early in life we have even less discrimination than when we become more adult.

The beautiful, strong energy feeling is usually felt as true love, whereas in reality we see the other we are connected to through the rose covered glasses of our faulty, brainless, because all energy is in the second chakra, perceptions.

The Brains are in the Balls! It is a wonderful feeling and one of the joys of life to feel this way. It is our first contact with the energies of the source and is a magical meeting.

Some people, though, become addicted to this second chakra feeling and spend the whole of their lives trying to recapture it.

However, a true human being, as well as being able to be in the second chakra at will. Also has the capacity not to be in the second chakra, at will. This control, bringing the energies back to the head or the heart. Allows us to see "The feet of clay." of our partners. We can then choose whether to accept any faults or not. Forgiveness is based upon this. We will not be surprised at a point when it is too late.

Control of these energies are our strongest test on the path of energy control. Gurdjieff said "If there had been two things like sex, I would not have become enlightened!".

Two of our students fell in love and were very happy together. They started to practice Energy Enhancement techniques and worked with the Second Chakra connections. When they met that night they immediately saw the feet of clay of the other. They saw more deeply into each others reality. When they worked on the connections again they immediately got back into the same state of complete acceptance of the other, but with one difference. They knew each other much better at a deep level. They could work with the second chakra. They could be closer to reality. They could not be surprised.

This energy connection between the second chakras is the energy needed to create a child. A child needs this very strong energy in order to be conceived. To bring its soul down to the earth. It is necessary to the continuance of the human race. Its use is generally the closest a normal person gets to the source, to god. These energies come from the source, and used correctly can teach us much about the source. There is no lack of enjoyment or love in control. Energy Enhancement teaches how to gain that control. Control indeed brings us more love. More enjoyment. More energy.

Inappropriate desire comes from wanting to selfishly grab someone's energy. Inappropriate aversion comes from any pain already held in the second chakra as a blockage. Orgasm is a connection with God. It lakes a lot of energy to take a child down from heaven. The energy of the orgasm flushes the second chakra with healing energy from a connection through the crown chakra. People who have too much pain held in the second chakra are afraid of looking into it, so although in the conscious mind they desire this second chakra connection, unconsciously they are afraid of the fast, violent release of this pain, for example in orgasm.

This pain and negative energy, held in the abdomen, results in the frigid people who cannot have an orgasm.

Consciously they really desire the release of an orgasm. The Orgasm normally clears out the Second chakra of small amounts of negative energy. Consciously they say yes. Unconsciously they say no! Because of Negative energy, Pain held in the second Chakra. They cannot face up to it, go near it.

This can result in problems at some rape trials. Many people report the confusing signals received and given. When too much pain is held in the second chakra then the opposite polarity of connection can create pain.

There are male and female connections to the second chakra. Sometimes this pain in opposite polarity connections can lead to one aspect of lesbianism and homosexuality as pleasure can only be felt in same polarity connections. When this pain is gently and slowly released through Energy Enhancement techniques the normal function of the orgasm is returned and a free choice is available again.

Some adults are addicted to this Second Chakra, sexual, connection because it is a source of great energy and therefore pleasure. The excess of this connection is a pleasurable addiction without any major harm except the energies do not have the opportunity to rise higher.

One drop of Semen has been compared in energy to one pint of blood. Therefore to much loss of semen will really deplete the energy system in the same way that abuse of drugs does. Therefore the use of celibacy and restriction in order to save energy. The Tantric answer is to learn how to stop the ejaculation of semen at the point of orgasm. There is a muscle in the perineum which when contracted will stop the passage of urine or semen through the penis. Strengthening this muscle through many contractions will lead to the control of ejaculation of semen and also, as it is the trigger point for The Base Chakra, will strengthen, give more energy to the Base Chakra.